Thursday, October 17, 2013

Learn from each other

10 Men of God can never be like men of the world. The world has enough men who are tough; we need men who are tender. There are enough men who are coarse; we need men who are kind. There are enough men who are rude; we need men who are refined. We have enough men of fame and fortune; we need more men of faith. We have enough greed; we need more goodness. We have enough vanity; we need more virtue. We have enough popularity; we need more purity. (The Joy of Womanhood: substituted the word men)

But one of the startling things about Christ is that He praises "the wicked" (woman at the well, the weeping sinner, the Pharisees). He sees their goodness. Christ might agree with this first passage while simultaneously endorsing the converse: not to criticize, but to complete.

Men of God must learn to be like men of the world. The Church has enough of men who sit; we need men who stand. There are enough men who are secluded; we need men who are connected. There are enough men who are quiet; we need men who are open. We have enough men of distinction; we need more men of unity. We have enough piety; we need more compassion. We have enough criticism; we need more proposition. (The Joy of Womanhood: deeply re-adapted)

Friday, October 11, 2013

Good enough

I asked the question: when are imperfect people good enough? I was confronted by the legion-of-devils-possessed-man. When was he “good enough”? Thankfully, I was stunned by this wisdom from someone I was supposed to be leading: “He was always good enough: he wanted to be better, he was willing to be open about his problem, he asked for help, and he showed gratitude for the help that was given, even though it was not what he had expected.”

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

They were forgiven

13: Moroni 6:8 But as oft as they repented and sought forgiveness, with real intent, they were forgiven.

God doesn’t need me to say that I’m worthless in order to receive forgiveness. He can hardly be excited about my telling Him that I am horrible: after all, He made me. He gave me my weaknesses, so it’s no surprise to him that I mess up. But that doesn’t mean that everything I do is right. I remember leading a class once on values: one of the people in the class said she didn’t know what a value was, and I felt inspired to define it as something other than what you are that you think is right. Repentance is about me admitting that I’m not perfect, despite my tendency to assume that I am. Repentance is about trying, not about being perfect.

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Mistake? Oh, you must be human!

9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.

This passage moves from categorical deviations to unity: a multiplicity of dirty become a single clean, a multitude of defiled become a single sacred, and a myriad of discriminations become a single justice. No longer strangers and foreigners, but fellow-citizens, understanding weaknesses as unifiers, not differentiators.